It seems that there are many people in this world who have outstanding backgrounds but are trying hard to separate themselves from their family relationships.

Some of them are labeled as soon as they are born and keep living in the shadow of their parents; some are happy to be influenced by family culture and walk on the long-standing avenue; some seem to be born rebellious, constantly wandering on the road of losing and finding themselves, and regarding what others have never had in their struggle for in their lives as shackles.

Whether it is "injuring Zhongyong" or "being better than being better than being a blue person", Hong Huang, who is now in his sixties this year, has spent most of her life looking for an answer.

The daughter of the last famous socialite

The Shijia Hutong in Beijing is known as "a hutong, half of China". In the early 1960s, Zhang Shizhao's family, who had just moved into the city, ushered in a new life, which was his adopted daughter Zhang Hanzhi's daughter.

Mr. Zhang, who regarded Zhang Hanzhi as his own, also regarded this little baby as his granddaughter. For this reason, he specially named him Hong Mian. The word "Mian" comes from Wang Mian, a famous poet of the Yuan Dynasty, and the meaning is self-evident.

Unfortunately, Mr. Zhang's name is like her own person, and his name is written too wildly, so that the registered household registration personnel misrecorded it as "Huang". By chance, the name "Hong Huang" is accompanied by this person who is not good-looking but has a prominent family. If nothing unexpected happens, she will continue to use this name to continue her "Huang" life.

Since childhood, I have been influenced by my mother and grandmother dressed up all day, listened to my grandfather talking about scriptures and Taoisms and learning, and truly achieved "there are great scholars in talking and laughing, but no one can communicate with each other."

But in this environment, she is very self-aware and wants to try to get rid of the shadow of her elders. Whenever someone says "Zhang Hanzhi's daughter", she likes to do things that let others know that she is "Hong Mian", such as being more careless. I hope that everyone can't imagine that there will be such a daughter when they see the elegance of grandma and mother.

In that ever-changing era, the little Hong Mian was dragged into the torrent of the changes of the times early. When he was less than ten years old, he was sent to the Affiliated High School of Beijing Foreign Languages ​​University for boarding with his grandmother's death. That worry-free childhood ended.

Not long afterwards, the school teacher told her that her mother could not see her for a while because Zhang Hanzhi went on a business trip with the United Nations delegation. Hong Mian later realized what kind of historical moment it was, and she didn't expect that Qiao Guanhua, the protagonist of the famous "Joe's Smile", would become his stepfather in the future.

When she was 12 years old, Hong Huang was sent to the United States to study as a "young student of a high-ranking official" and one day of that year, her father Hong Junyan told him that he would not be able to play like this in the future.

Because he had been divorced with Zhang Hanzhi for two months, Hong Huang did not fully understand the meaning of the divorce, but just went back and cried, understanding that he was just an ordinary person with joy, anger, sorrow and happiness.

The distance between the famous girl from the eastern hemisphere to the western hemisphere finally gave her a chance to breathe, but the huge cultural difference caught Hong Huang, who had just arrived in a foreign land, off guard.

On the eve of going to the United States, Hong Huang seemed to have a feeling that represented the Chinese, so he didn't want to lose face. The relevant departments seemed to think so, so she received an astronomical allowance for purchasing clothing.

After getting the fee, she went to a tailor to customize a high-end suit, transforming from a traditional image of a rich Jiangnan girl to a "trendy person" full of dresses.

As a result, when I crossed the ocean to the school in New York, I realized that I was so out of place with my peers wearing various ripped clothes in my class.

Only then did she realize that some things can transcend the limitations of time and space, just like the students in front of her who were deeply influenced by hippie culture, who seemed to have the same effect as her rebellion. It turns out that young people at any time and place will have youth that has nowhere to be released.

Although Hong Huang, who has been studying in the United States for many years, has found some belonging to her rebellion, she has always maintained excellent results.

Qiao Guanhua, who had already been stepfather in his junior year, had worsened. Hong Huang decided to temporarily interrupt his studies and return to China for visits. At this time, Hong Huang fell in love with her boyfriend Andrew for a period of time. In order to facilitate her boyfriend to return to China, she actually got married to him hastily!

Such a marriage was about to disappear without any surprise. Hong Huang, born in an old privileged family, seemed to have always had an artistic complex. After returning from her studies, she was deeply attracted by the movie "Loessland".

After wandering around for many years, she was immersed in the ravines of Shaanxi and Gansu in "Loessland", and even ignited the fire of love in her heart. Afterwards, after a friend's introduction, she finally met Chen Kaige, the director of the filming of her new work "Walking and Singing" in the Northwest.

The young Chen Kaige is full of energy, with starry eyes and talent, satisfying the image of many young girls in their dream lovers, including Hong Huang. The two quickly fell in love and walked into the palace of marriage.

Hong Huang, who had been specializing in politics for many years, did not enter the political arena at this time, but went to a German company to be the chief representative of the country. She has a high income but feels that money is dirty and should devote herself to art. Her encounter with Chen Kaige may be a tease of fate.

I'm afraid Hong Huang just projected his life's business onto the talented man he happened to meet. How can the two people in love see this clearly? In addition, talented men have always been romantic since ancient times. Not long after, the two of them lost their love to reality.

She accompanied Chen Kaige through a period of hardships, but left Chen Kaige when it was the most glorious. Hong Huang, who tasted the taste of jealousy for the first time, couldn't understand why so many women still pursue such a family man. However, with a good tutor, she didn't want to be a shrew who scolded the streets, so she simply divorced and angrily threw Chen Kaige away.

Laughing and scolding to live out your true self

After divorced Chen Kaige, she did not care about the outside world's gaze, and even regarded her friends' regrets as nonsense.

As if he was angry, Hong Huang soon entered the third marriage. At this time, she was taking an annual salary of 180,000 US dollars in the 1990s and was taking the "Benz" to go to various high-end places. She was busy with money and was very leisurely.

Hong Huang had this enviable life when she was born. She felt like an old woman, her life had no change or meaning. In the end, she gave herself a pleasure, resigned and divorced.

Now, under the waves of the times, Hong Huang, who became someone else's stepdaughter, has also become someone else's stepmother.

Originally, in her heart, her mother was a person with the idea of ​​superiority and inferiority of men in the old society. Even if she met Qiao Guanhua, who was worth entrusting her life, she had not enjoyed a few years of blessings. Therefore, Hong Huang, who was determined not to repeat her mother's mistakes, finally unexpectedly married Yang Xiaoping, a designer who seemed to be very ordinary in all aspects. Until now, the two are still living their own little lives happily.

She and her stepdaughter have always been called friends. With Hong Huang, who has the new identity of stepmother, is not afraid of rumors and demonstrates Chinese education with practical actions.

Hong Huang, who always insists on herself, finally got out of the influence of her elders. After going around, she seemed to have returned to the place where she was born, but no matter how others evaluate her, Hong Huang, who bravely faces her life choices and obeys her own wishes, will eventually go? I think time will give the answer.